Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.
When you think about it, or simply just by living –you really end up not having to think about it at all– you will usually for one reason at a time have great cause for concern or anxiety, so that you’re “under it.” And we sort of get used to living there, hopefully learning to flourish and so in a sense no longer be under the circumstances.
In the midst of it all, I want to please God. And a life of pleasing God involves walking through whatever it is that we are facing in a way, obviously, that is pleasing to him. And what way might that be? The way of faith, in the Spirit, in and through Christ, and of course Christ’s death and resurrection.
So that no matter what we face, regardless of how difficult it is, we can set our goal to simply be pleasing to God whatever the outcome. Walking through it might well be difficult with no answers along the way, relatively clueless. But our confidence ultimately must be in God, and in nothing or no one else. That is the one hope for us, and for everyone. Whether in the midst of great loss, or whatever we are facing. All of this in and through Jesus.