Hear my cry, O God;
listen to my prayer.
The beginning to finding the point of anything, probably not so much in terms of meaning, as in something of resolution, is to pray. The line above is the beginning of a great psalm, so formative for us in certain ways. It’s not long. Read it for yourself (the above link).
We must turn to God in prayer, and keep that posture of heart, mind, and life. We are usually struggling over something. That in itself is a help for us to turn with all our need to God.
We tend in our brokenness to want to solve life ourselves, or take in the latest popular advice. Instead, we need to turn to God, to the gospel. The Spirit speaks to the church.
We need to call out, and listen. And trust and obey. In and through Jesus.