the fear of the Lord providing security

Whoever fears the LORD has a secure fortress,
    and for their children it will be a refuge.

Proverbs 14:26

The fear of the Lord is called the beginning of knowledge and wisdom, referring to something of an inside understanding from God. There is certainly a reverential awe with surely a sense of wonder. But never a cowering fear. Through Jesus we know God as a loving Father, whose love knows no bounds (see Jesus’s parable of the Prodigal Son, which also could aptly be called the Prodigal Father). But this God who is love is still God.

This fear of God paradoxically makes one secure, in a sense fearing nothing. We read in 1 John that there is no fear in love, that perfect love casts out fear, because fear has to do with judgment. Although we know that in ourselves we are unworthy, yet living in the fear of God and what he has provided for us in Jesus gives us a security that is not only like being a part of the family, but actually is. Somehow, in whatever way this might best be expressed, and probably in a number of ways, we find security, or a fortress of safety in fearing the Lord, and best of all along with that, this is a refuge for our children. They too can find it, as we live in it. A wonderful reality for us all, in and through Jesus.

when old wounds are reopened

When what still seems to be fresh wounds are reopened, what do we do? I think we try to address the problem, in grace, but forthrightly. With an emphasis on gentleness and love. And we bring our pain before God. Like the psalmists, like Jesus himself. We must forgive, we can’t hold anything against anyone. If we understand something of our own hearts, that should help us readily forgive others, since we know that we too are in need of grace and forgiveness every day.

We want also to prayerfully consider where the other party is. Perhaps they have had a legitimate complaint concerning which we need to repent. Or perhaps they have an insight we don’t, though at the same time “insights” have all too often trumped what scripture says. When tradition, reason and experience take precedence over, or are even in put on an even par in authority with scripture, God’s voice in his written word, that is wrong.* Nothing is on a par with scripture, even though tradition, reason and experience serve to both grapple with and confirm its meaning and application for the times. We too need to beware that our “insight” is according to scripture.

In the end, we come together before God and through Christ. In the end all wounds of this nature in and through Jesus will be healed. Love will abound in righteousness, and righteousness will abound in love. Until then we carry on, praying the prayer our Lord gave us to pray:

Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from the evil one,
for yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.

*This insight (stated in my understanding of it here, if not as he wrote it) I gathered from Richard B. Hayes, The Moral Vision of the New Testament: Community, Cross, New Creation, A Contemporary Introduction to New Testament Ethics.

the Winter blues

Actually we’ve barely moved into Winter, on the calendar only have begun. Perhaps it’s a combination of cold weather (though it has been unseasonably warm) and the end of Advent which has got me. Although we still do have one last Christmas Sunday coming. But this is the time of the year, I think, when more suicides occur, and more heart attacks as well. Allegedly, more loneliness.

Perhaps that makes it a good time to reflect all the more on what our hope actually is. It is not in the things of this life, nor in any of the entities of this life which people often put so much of their faith in and hope on. Even though these may have their place and indeed be helpful. Whatever good we receive is from the good hand of God, who may use these things.

But most important we need to draw near to God, to seek God, to make every effort to find our rest in him. For me I might recite a psalm I know such as Psalm 23. I do practice reciting repeatedly during a day both the “Jesus Creed” and “the Lord’s/our Father prayer.” I find these helpful in keeping me centered on what’s important in our calling in Jesus. And they can be helpful in seeking to draw near to God.

And we need friends. It is always helpful to find a true, loyal friend, one to whom we can listen, and who will listen to us. Friends who no matter what, like each other, or even during possibly unlikable times remain loyal to each other.

Of course the church is the one entity we can return to again and again, in spite of us, we might say in spite of it, though we must remember for all its weakness and imperfection, it is the body of Christ.  And for those of us who have families such as spouses, we need to keep close and spend quality time which means quantity as well, with each other.

And so we want to shore up during times in which we may be more vulnerable to depression or inward struggle. We need to be present for and committed to each other. In Jesus together for the world.

God the Father of all in Jesus

God is father of all by creation, so that in that sense we can say that all humanity are sons and daughters of God, and that we in that sense are all one family, even as we are one humanity, one race, certainly intermingled, whatever the biological differences may be.

But God is father in the deepest sense to all who put their faith in Jesus:

So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith…

We need God as our Father, and we find that through faith in Jesus. And I believe God seeks as a father the lost throughout the world, everyone whom he has created, since they in that sense are his children. Sadly we rebel and distance ourselves from God in our lostness. But he seeks us out, and longs for our return, even as the father did in Jesus’ story of the lost (“prodigal”) son.

God being our father through faith in Jesus, we are then all one family, brothers and sisters with and in Jesus, who is not ashamed to be identified with us in that way. It is a family thing, a family matter, something in a true sense that ends up being closer and more intimate than our own immediate biological families.

We need God as our Father, I know I do through all the questions and problems of life. And I need the family, all who are in Jesus, brothers and sisters with me in him. A blessing meant not only for us, but for the world.

Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from the evil one,
for yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.

the joy of unity

 1 How good and pleasant it is
when God’s people live together in unity!

2 It is like precious oil poured on the head,
running down on the beard,
running down on Aaron’s beard,
down on the collar of his robe.
3 It is as if the dew of Hermon
were falling on Mount Zion.
For there the LORD bestows his blessing,
even life forevermore.

Psalm 133

There is the sin of disunity, and there is also the joy of unity. There is nothing more encouraging than when people are united together in love under Christ by the Spirit. All living as one family as daughters and sons of the Father.

This psalm points to not only the joy of this unity, but also its importance in God’s eyes, and for the world. We indeed in and through Jesus as God’s people are blessed to be a blessing. We are blessed in the Father’s love for us, but that blessing is to be given in our witness of love in and through Jesus, to the world.

Unity even through Jesus doesn’t always come easy, in fact in the long haul it will be tested and tried. It is not maintained easily. That’s why we’re told to make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. It will involve submitting to each other even when we think our way is better.

And it involves a commitment to grow in this unity. In not only simply being united, but in what that union means. Full of meaning from the Triune God, and in the way of Jesus in this world.

Of course it does mean living with our differences. In this life we’re not going to agree on everything. Hopefully we can come closer together in our thinking, or at least understand the other p0sition better. These can be over matters even of importance in doctrine. Though not matters of what the church has called dogma. Even then we need discernment because it’s not always easy or clear where to draw the lines between dogma and doctrine.

We are in this together in Jesus, period. There is no way out. This is clear throughout scripture, and we voice it every time we pray the Lord’s/Our Father prayer. So we need to work through our differences in forgiving each other, and in love covering over a multitude of sins, etc.

The blessing that comes even from this effort even when we are yet far from where we need to be can be palpable toward becoming great. We are indeed to grow in this grace in and through our Lord Jesus. Together for the world.