accept difficulties?!?

Mortals, born of woman,
are of few days and full of trouble.

Job 14:1

Job’s words may seem like a far too pessimistic view of life, and that this passage should be taken in the context of Job’s great troubles. Yes, maybe so, but there are numerous people who have faced tremendous difficulties. And we all do to some extent. Where I live we talk about “first world” problems to give some perspective. But even in our situation, we’re not immune to most any of the difficulties others face aside from the differences in stark places where one’s faith and even humanity are not accepted.

It’s good to accept the inevitable bad that will come with life. “With acceptance comes peace.” In fact it’s a necessity if we’re to go on and do well in life, do what needs to be done. Of course we’ll have to prayerfully work through our problems. And perhaps just pray about other problems that we can do nothing about.

In this wisdom book, Job was trying to help what became his accusers to see that his plight was illustrative of life, what can happen in someone’s life, and what on a lesser scale occurs in one way or another in everyone’s life. Their lack of understanding seemed to be partly in the idea that the righteous are blessed so that they don’t encounter what would plainly be understood to be a curse. Imagine someone venerated for goodness who falls on hard times and then whose goodness is questioned. Fortunately for us, this book helps us see the precariousness of such a position.

It’s important to hold steady during the troubling times, even the most difficult. Hold steady in faith and perseverance in trying to do what is good and right. Admittedly that is more challenging when one is faced with the hardest things of life: the loss of a close loved one, one’s livelihood lost with little or nothing to fall on, etc. We don’t do well to point fingers at people and tell them something trite like simply, “Accept your difficulties.” We need to stand with such people as individuals and as a society, something which should be natural for the church, but should include the state as well. There needs to be a safety net, and God’s people need to be present for each other, as well as for others.

In the meantime we need to hold steady ourselves. Not living in some sort of denial, but facing our problems honestly, head on, thoughtfully and above all, prayerfully with faith that God can and will see us through each and everyone of them. In and through Jesus.

God’s help upstream

ר Resh

Look on my suffering and deliver me,
for I have not forgotten your law.
Defend my cause and redeem me;
preserve my life according to your promise.
Salvation is far from the wicked,
for they do not seek out your decrees.
Your compassion, LORD, is great;
preserve my life according to your laws.
Many are the foes who persecute me,
but I have not turned from your statutes.
I look on the faithless with loathing,
for they do not obey your word.
See how I love your precepts;
preserve my life, LORD, in accordance with your love.
All your words are true;
all your righteous laws are eternal.

Psalm 119:153-160

Oftentimes we feel like we’re rowing upstream, in other words, against the tide. While so many others are going with the flow, doing what everyone else supposedly does. And we can be looked on as strange and even estranged as a result.

During such times we need to hold on to God’s word and God’s promises, and not be moved from them. It’s all too easy for us to forget them for a moment in reaction to our trouble and troublers. Instead we need to continue to look to God and his word. Believing that God will help us to continue on in his will and way in and through Jesus.

 

 

grace to obey

ק Qoph

I call with all my heart; answer me, LORD,
and I will obey your decrees.
I call out to you; save me
and I will keep your statutes.
I rise before dawn and cry for help;
I have put my hope in your word.
My eyes stay open through the watches of the night,
that I may meditate on your promises.
Hear my voice in accordance with your love;
preserve my life, LORD, according to your laws.
Those who devise wicked schemes are near,
but they are far from your law.
Yet you are near, LORD,
and all your commands are true.
Long ago I learned from your statutes
that you established them to last forever.

Psalm 119:145-152

There is no question that the psalmist is completely dependent on God. That dependence includes ability to obey. Although the cry evidently is for deliverance from enemies, I think there is something more going on when God so rescues. It’s God’s work, and with that work there’s a grace that is all about living in God’s love and out of that love, in God’s will. Often what happens in the Old Testament is relegated more or less to the physical, and in the New Testament to the spiritual. That is probably an artificial distinction which doesn’t play out in either Testament.

God’s work in Christ is comprehensive. And even though the psalmist lived before Christ and before the coming of the Spirit through Christ, yet the Spirit was present and at work in the Old Testament. People were still not only declared righteous by faith, but had a change of heart and life which accompanied that. Of course Christ’s coming brought the fulfillment of everything. But it’s evident in the Old Testament as we can see from this passage that God’s people had a mind and heart to obey God. And the help they received was not partial, merely physical. It gave them the heart, will, mind and strength to carry on, regardless of what else, as they looked to God. For us today in and through Jesus.

during difficult times

ע Ayin

I have done what is righteous and just;
do not leave me to my oppressors.
Ensure your servant’s well-being;
do not let the arrogant oppress me.
My eyes fail, looking for your salvation,
looking for your righteous promise.
Deal with your servant according to your love
and teach me your decrees.
I am your servant; give me discernment
that I may understand your statutes.
It is time for you to act, LORD;
your law is being broken.
Because I love your commands
more than gold, more than pure gold,
and because I consider all your precepts right,
I hate every wrong path.

Psalm 119:121-128

I sometimes hear/read something like all we need to know is that God is love, that love is what it’s all about, and we need nothing more. This passage is one example among many of why we need all of Scripture. I too would like to live in the sense of God’s love for me and for everyone else. But life hits me along the way from many different angles, and there’s no escape from spiritual warfare for us Christians, as much as we would like to avoid it.

The psalmist here certainly doesn’t have it altogether. He/she is at a loss, and feels lost. We’ve all been there when we feel threatened or for some reason or another ill at ease. When we’re simply not resting in God’s unchangeable love for us, or we’re not able to experience that love at the moment.

How the psalmist engages God during such a time for them is helpful for us. We look to God, and we are set on obedience to God come what may. Our faith and commitment is not dependent on our circumstances. At the same time we also realize our complete dependence on God. To give us discernment and yes, to bring deliverance from our struggle. The only path for us. In and through Jesus.

God’s transcending care

ל Lamedh

Your word, LORD, is eternal;
it stands firm in the heavens.
Your faithfulness continues through all generations;
you established the earth, and it endures.
Your laws endure to this day,
for all things serve you.
If your law had not been my delight,
I would have perished in my affliction.
I will never forget your precepts,
for by them you have preserved my life.
Save me, for I am yours;
I have sought out your precepts.
The wicked are waiting to destroy me,
but I will ponder your statutes.
To all perfection I see a limit,
but your commands are boundless.

Psalm 119:89-96

When I think of how God looks at us, I am reminded of our kitty cat, Cloe who we rescued a year ago, and our cat, Ashton, as well. They might be distressed and so be out of sorts in their cat experience, but our love for them continues as full and unabated as ever. So it is with God toward us. We often are lost in our experience, not feeling God’s love in the least, perhaps overcome with fear or something else. But God’s love remains: pure, unabated, infinite, far beyond what we could possibly take in or understand.

The psalmist has a sense of this. In pondering God’s directions, the psalmist finds hope and delight. And it’s through the real, sometimes seemingly soul crushing experiences of life. It’s with an eye toward God, completely dependent on him, believing in his mercy, entrusting one’s self entirely to him, and bringing one’s problems and difficulties before God in prayer. Knowing by faith that God and God’s love is actually present, even when we aren’t enjoying any of that at the moment. That God has everything well in hand in his transcending care. In and through Jesus.

when one feels threatened

כ Kaph

My soul faints with longing for your salvation,
but I have put my hope in your word.
My eyes fail, looking for your promise;
I say, “When will you comfort me?”
Though I am like a wineskin in the smoke,
I do not forget your decrees.
How long must your servant wait?
When will you punish my persecutors?
The arrogant dig pits to trap me,
contrary to your law.
All your commands are trustworthy;
help me, for I am being persecuted without cause.
They almost wiped me from the earth,
but I have not forsaken your precepts.
In your unfailing love preserve my life,
that I may obey the statutes of your mouth.

Psalm 119:81-88

When did you last feel threatened? Probably not with your life at stake like the psalmist here, but just threatened in one way or another? This is a big part of the enemy’s arsenal. Schemes to put us back on our heels, so that ultimately, we might lose our foothold and fail to stand firm (Ephesians 6:10-20).

Fortunately for us we have God’s promise in his word to be with us always, and help us. Of course we have to pray, believing God will give us wisdom, and whatever else is needed.

Our goal in the end is nothing more than living in the light and love and will of God. Nothing more and nothing less. In and through Jesus.

for those who often don’t feel all that well

ד Daleth

I am laid low in the dust;
preserve my life according to your word.
I gave an account of my ways and you answered me;
teach me your decrees.
Cause me to understand the way of your precepts,
that I may meditate on your wonderful deeds.
My soul is weary with sorrow;
strengthen me according to your word.
Keep me from deceitful ways;
be gracious to me and teach me your law.
I have chosen the way of faithfulness;
I have set my heart on your laws.
I hold fast to your statutes, LORD;
do not let me be put to shame.
I run in the path of your commands,
for you have broadened my understanding.

Psalm 119:25-32

There’s not much room in Christian evangelical circles for people like me. A person who often feels “laid low in the dust.” And when people ask me how I am, it’s usually “pretty good.” Some people would call that down in the mouth, not rejoicing and living in the joy of the Lord as I should. That somehow my mind and faith isn’t right.

We come to God just as we are, and we don’t try to hide. We confess our sins, and pray God will keep us from deceitful ways, like justifying what we ought not to. We don’t let our inward struggle dictate what we do, of course only through God’s help.

I’m glad there are the psalms for people like me, which express the way I feel. “My soul is weary with sorrow…” But also with God’s help in the strength and provision given to us in answer to prayer, the prayer to live in God’s will with God’s answer forthcoming. For people like me, for everyone. In and through Jesus.